“You don’t have to be perfect, just consistent.”
As a medical provider who discusses lifestyle choices with her patients on a daily basis, I can honestly say, it’s become a tired and almost obsolete discussion. First off, there never seems to be enough time to get beyond the basics of “eat healthy, exercise, and quit smoking”. Secondly, when confronted with the truth of being overweight or obese, most patients have gotten comfortable with their diagnosis, and don’t seem that motivated to change, even though it could mean losing years on their lives. Third, there are those who do wish to lose weight, but simply do not want to put the effort into reading labels, cooking meals at home, choosing veggies over more appealing fried foods, packing meals and snacks for the work day, or moving their bodies on a regular basis. They likely have tried to lose weight in the past and failed. And finally, there are those who request weight loss medication to do all the work for them, regardless of the risks associated. With more than 2/3 of America overweight or obese, it seems to be an uphill battle for medical providers from the onset. We must start to dismantle these excuses and roadblocks one at a time, and begin again with a fresh perspective and mindset.
With all of my experience in the office counseling patients, my past athletic history, and current attempts to shed the 20 lbs of extra ‘baby weight’ from the twins I delivered 2 months ago, I thought I might try a common sense approach to explaining the golden truths required to loose it and KEEP it off, and explain why often times, it doesn’t work. But it can work, and it will, IF you embrace the concepts below like a life jacket, and you’re ready to make the change.
- Excuses Have Become Your Safety Blanket
The best excuse I’ve ever heard for not exercising or eating right is, “I don’t have time because I work all day, and when I get home, I want to spend time with my kids”. I applaud you for putting your kids high on your priority list, because that’s where they should be. But tell me what favors you’re doing them by increasing your risk of death by 19% each year by being sedentary? You could be increasing your time on this earth with them by between 1.5 to 5 years if you exercised regularly, and up to 20 years to your life by eating intentionally clean and healthy. And what example are you setting for them? Don’t you want your kids to establish a routine where being active is the norm, where eating a majority of vegetables and fruits is standard? How are they going to know unless you show them? I’ve heard it said, “Do as I say, not as I do”. Well, I’m here to tell you, that is a crap motto to live by and a complete cop-out. BE THE EXAMPLE. Act like being healthy is important to you, and they’ll assume it IS important. Just telling them to make smart choices or shaming them in front of the doctor when they’re called out for being overweight or obese is not enough and will NOT influence them to change.
All other excuses, besides extreme physical or mental disability, are bogus, in my opinion. We medical providers see right through them. And what we’re left with is the simple fact that people don’t care, and don’t want to make an effort. They don’t want to have to work at it. And as providers, we can’t make them care. But we can give them tools to help overcome every other excuse they’ve clung to over the years. And we do understand that some periods of life will be crazier than others, and people will be less or more motivated at certain times. Life happens. Sometimes, achieving weight loss and a healthy lifestyle simply requires a little reprioritizing of time and efforts. Remember, it usually takes about a month for any forced behavior (a new exercise regimen, planning out meals, making healthy choices at the grocery store, etc.) to become a habit. Once it’s a habit, it becomes easy to stick with. And it may take up to a month to see any changes in your weight. So, don’t give up after 2 weeks of trying. Stick with it! You don’t have to be perfect, just consistent.
About our Author
Brittany Arnett is a graduate of the NOVA Southeastern University Physician Assistant Program in Fort Lauderdale, FL. Brittany completed her undergraduate studies at Belmont University in Nashville, Tennessee, while playing Division I volleyball. Brittany has been part of the North Shore Family Practice team since 2011.